Banishing Hannibal Lecter Personalities From Your Life

Written by Gary Simpson


We all know them. We all have somebody like them at our workplace. Some of us have them as our neighbor. Some are related to them. Gosh - some poor souls even live with them. So who are these people I speak of?

What I am talking about arerepparttar Hannibal Lecters of society. Toxic people.

Toxic people enjoy telling you every reason why you can't or shouldn't do something. Tell them an idea and they will tell you it's no good. They hope that you won't achieve more than they can and really don't want you to succeed. They whine, they complain, they spread rumors, they are prone to ugly moods - a thundercloud follows their every move. They arerepparttar 131150 doomsayers. I'll bet you already have someone like this in mind as you read these very words.

Unlikerepparttar 131151 Hannibal Lecter of "Silence ofrepparttar 131152 Lambs" fame, toxic people are not trying to eat your flesh. No. Toxic people want to consume other things - your confidence, your self-esteem, your dreams, your ambitions, your goals, your desires. I think you getrepparttar 131153 picture.

The best thing you can do if you find yourself inrepparttar 131154 presence of one of these people is to run, hide, make other plans. Just get away from them as fast as you can. The least amount of time you spend with themrepparttar 131155 better.

Toxic people will attempt to indoctrinate you with huge amounts of negative input in a very short space of time, so it is imperative that you limit your time with them. They are easy to recognize. Their language gives them away. Every time they open their mouth out comes a litany of everything that is wrong with them, you,repparttar 131156 world and other people.

Recognizing positive and negative personality traits is one ofrepparttar 131157 skills of personal development. Many excellent books exist on this subject but there are none better than "Personality Plus" written by Florence Littauer.

Learn to Do What Winners Do But Others Will Not

Written by Gary Simpson


If you want to be a winner you have to be prepared to develop a certain personal trait which others will not.

Are you prepared to do more to receive more? Or are you like most people who want consistently to do less and less, yet are mistakenly expecting more in return.

The notion of doing less to get more is a furphy. Oh, you can dream about winning and long for success as much as you like but it won't happen - not withoutrepparttar magic ingredients.

It is a universal law that in order to attract more into your life you have to render more service. Only by helping other people get what they want can you ever expect to get what you want. Confused? Let me explain:

Apart from having a definite purpose in life, that is, clearly defined goals, you must be prepared to work hard and never give up.

Token efforts give token rewards. Massive efforts create massive rewards. A massive effort requires one powerful personal trait - persistence.

Calvin Coolidge,repparttar 131148 30th President ofrepparttar 131149 United States of America, had this to say about persistence:

"Nothing inrepparttar 131150 world can takerepparttar 131151 place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not;repparttar 131152 world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent The slogan Press On has solved, and always will solve,repparttar 131153 problems ofrepparttar 131154 human race".

To illustraterepparttar 131155 power of persistence you might like to read a short book that I enjoyed, forrepparttar 131156 first time, in 1993. It was written by Peter B Kyne way back in 1921, yetrepparttar 131157 story it tells holds just as true today as it did inrepparttar 131158 year it was written. The book is called The Go-Getter.

Kyne tellsrepparttar 131159 story of one Bill Peck who went to extraordinary lengths to procure a certain blue vase. It is an endearing story which will take less than an hour of your time to read. Although it is a very old book, and may be difficult to get, you should be able to track it down using its unique identifier number, ISBN : 0-03-031400-3.

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