If you want to be a winner you have to be prepared to develop a certain personal trait which others will not. Are you prepared to do more to receive more? Or are you like most people who want consistently to do less and less, yet are mistakenly expecting more in return.
The notion of doing less to get more is a furphy. Oh, you can dream about winning and long for success as much as you like but it won't happen - not without magic ingredients.
It is a universal law that in order to attract more into your life you have to render more service. Only by helping other people get what they want can you ever expect to get what you want. Confused? Let me explain:
Apart from having a definite purpose in life, that is, clearly defined goals, you must be prepared to work hard and never give up.
Token efforts give token rewards. Massive efforts create massive rewards. A massive effort requires one powerful personal trait - persistence.
Calvin Coolidge, 30th President of United States of America, had this to say about persistence:
"Nothing in world can take place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent The slogan Press On has solved, and always will solve, problems of human race".
To illustrate power of persistence you might like to read a short book that I enjoyed, for first time, in 1993. It was written by Peter B Kyne way back in 1921, yet story it tells holds just as true today as it did in year it was written. The book is called The Go-Getter.
Kyne tells story of one Bill Peck who went to extraordinary lengths to procure a certain blue vase. It is an endearing story which will take less than an hour of your time to read. Although it is a very old book, and may be difficult to get, you should be able to track it down using its unique identifier number, ISBN : 0-03-031400-3.